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why relations get tensed 

Think ???????
we tell you why 
1. Expectations ( unreasonable ) are the biggest enemy of all relations .Live relations as they unfold ,Dont ever have expectation then  every movement will be happyness 
2. Possessiveness , Every human in this world have number of the roles to play , hence his love, affection ,wealth ,fame and time will be shared between number of people .If you accept this  will be easy to give away .
3. Not able to digest others success, as human most of the time we are unhappy because others are happy .learn to be happy with others .
4. Mistrust- Not having blind trust on own husband/wife/son /daughter /moom /father rather then trusting the most unreliable people ,because they speak to you sweetly.
5. Misunderstanding the difference between  self respect and ego ,the professional ego is good but financial kills relations ,same time in the name of self respect never ever try to shoot down others . 
6.Creation of false important- Every human have, its role to play in family/society /work place, so be a useful member of the group not the enemy .
7.Superiority complex  Never have this due to wealth ,prettiness,knowledge ,power ,status  ect because nothing is permanent in this universe.
8.Poor understanding on give and take concept  relations need nurturing and that is possible if both side take a step forward, in that one extends and other aspects
9.loss of respect for each other   Very unfortunate but this do take place because we have forgotten to forgive people .

Remember relations are interdependent ,if you wish, you can live them tearless else even india and pakistan do also have relations.

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